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Expectations for child care helpQ: Please tell us what the expectations should be for live in help. We have a 15 month old and a 3 month old. My wife works part time. What should be our expectations for child care and house work from our live-in help?Carl
A:
Dear Carl, First, determine the number of hours per week the care provider is to work - 50 hours is common. Then I would suggest you determine what amount of time you and your wife want to care for the children directly, if you want nights out, or if you will expect to be traveling and need 24 hour care. Then determine the house care tasks to be shared - laundry, cooking, shopping, general clean-up. With this information you can get an idea of what would be ideal support. Every child care person is different in their abilities and energy level and may be able to accomplish more or less of the house care activities. Your agreement should be worked out over time with regular communication check-ins scheduled up front which decreases the fear factor when you say "lets talk about how you are doing". Remember a loving, caring individual for your children comes first at these young ages.
Good luck,
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