Get Organized
Packrat Needs Help!
Question: I'm addicted to storing stuff, I've got under the bed storage,
closet organizers and file cabinets galore. My problem is I don't know how
to get rid of stuff. So I organize and store just about everything. I've got
my children's school papers and artwork, I've got work papers that I keep in
my home office (I don't have enough storage space at work), I've got gadgets
and stuff that I'm sure I'll use one day again. I think I need help!
Marti
Answer:
Don't worry- being a clutterbug (or "collector") is much more common than
you think. Having the best-organized stuff doesn't leave much room for you
and your family, does it? One of the most important steps in organizing is
learning how to SORT. Once you learn how to sort through your stuff, purging
the trash from the treasure, learning to let go of some of the old papers
and catalogs, and passing on outgrown and outdated clothes, you'll have much
less to stuff into your storage containers.
I like to sort things into 4 main categories: Trash, Keep, Sell or Give
Away, and Undecided. Get a friend or family member (who promises not to
judge you) to help you so that you don't have to mourn over every cherished
item. Sometimes we have issue with our stuff, and having a friend help us
through the ordeal makes it much more bearable.
Sort by category. For papers, sort by type such as: to file, to pay, to
read, throw away. For clothing and shoes: trash (beyond repair or unusable-
don't save for rags!), sell (resale shop, charity, or give away as
hand-me-downs), keep (only those items that fit and you have worn within the
past year please), and undecided (those clogs are coming back- do you keep
them and try to hobble along as you carry the baby on your hip, or is it
really time to retire them to the vintage clothing store?).
Now here is the hard part: Don't analyze or romantasize everything you
touch. Pick it up, toss it into the appropriate stack or box, and move on.
Don't read mail, love letters, or go through Junior's photo album. Focus!
This is where a good friend really comes in handy. Sit beside them or across
from them as THEY pick up and sort the items, giving input where needed.
When you get ready to do something with the stacks you've sorted in your
organizing project, get your friend to literally pick it up and move it out
of sight. Trash goes out to the dumpster. Items To Sell or To Donate go into
the van for drop off. Undecided items get moved out of the way, down the
hall, and out of sight (and mind) for a day or so until your mind can
clearly decide where to put them. That leaves you with a smaller stack or
box full of things to organize and use all those great containers for.
Try not to tackle too big of an area at a time when it comes to
decluttering. Purging a lifetime of memorabilia or houseful of papers isn't
easy, and it'll take more than an hour or so. Set a kitchen timer, put on
some upbeat music, and start sorting. Stop when it's time for a break, and
just reorganize a small area of your "problem zone". Before you know it,
you'll be decluttered and get rid of a lot of the visual clutter in your
household.
Good luck,
Debbie Williams
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