Ask the Expert Dr. Roni Leiderman, Associate Dean at The Family and School Center of Nova Southeastern University, is not only an expert on parenting issues but the working mother of two children. Moving with Children Question: I have two kids, my son is 8 months old and my daughter is 3 years old. We recently moved to the U.S. and currently I do not drive so we are stuck at home during the day. My daughter is having a hard day adjusting to this country. What should I do? - Rashmi Answer: It is challenging for a child or an adult to move to a new country and leave behind friends and family. Your move, combined with having two children and no transportation, must be very challenging. Your daughter may be reacting to the move as well as to your feelings of loneliness. If you live in a community where there are other children, make attempts to arrange play dates for your daughter. She is at the age where friends are important and playtime with other children becomes a fun-filled event. Check where your local park is. Even making walking trips to local stores will offer a change of scenery for all of you. For those times that you are at home, create play times for your daughter. Set up an area of your home that has art supplies, blocks, books, and imaginative play opportunities (dolls, kitchen props, pretend food, etc.). Play music, cook together, make art projects. Understand that three year olds love to play. That's how they learn. Check with your local public school to see if there are any programs for pre-schoolers. Amanda's Place is a county program for parents and children to play and learn together. Inquire as to the location of the nearest program in your area. In the meanwhile, be sensitive to your daughter's cues. If you find that, in spite your efforts and play opportunities with other children, she still seems sullen or not playful, speak with your pediatrician. Other recently asked questions • My daughter wants to dress herself but chooses inappropriate clothing. what should I do? • Submit your questions