From a Dad's View David answers your questions Question: We have an alternative family. My mate and I are not married. I am a woman exec and the sole breadwinner and, to top it off, my mate stays home and takes care of our two children. We love the arrangement. But I think our "family" situation is beginning to affect how people perceive me. Or maybe I just feel awkward. I mean, how do I explain our situation to my children and colleagues? Answer: I say if it's not broke, then maybe leave it alone. Your feelings may stem from a desire to solidify your relationship. Marriage is a legal as well as social institution. You and your mate can take care of any legalities such as custody and inheritance by having papers drawn up. The social considerations are much different. There are practically more single parent families in this country than two-parent units. You're doing something right if your family is healthy and strong. Don't sweat it. Other recently asked questions • How do I handle every colleague's ultimate question--what does your husband do? • I think my husband is jealous of my success. What should I do? • I earn more than my partner and I think it bruises his ego. What should I do? David Pereyra is a stay-at-home dad and the other half of a BlueSuitMom.