From a Dad's View David answers your questions Question: I earn more than my partner. He's great with our children but I still feel guilty and I think it bruises his ego. Answer: Hmmm. Did he say so? How does it manifest itself? My thinking is harvest while the harvesting is good. If he really does have a problem with you earning more, ask him how much of a pay cut would make him feel better. In money matters, more is merrier. Other recently asked questions • How do I handle every colleague's ultimate question--what does your husband do? • I think my husband is jealous of my success. What should I do? • My mate and I are not married, I am a woman exec and my mate is a SAHD. How do I explain our situation to others? David Pereyra is a stay-at-home dad and the other half of a BlueSuitMom.