Ask the Expert Dr. Roni Leiderman, Associate Dean at The Family and School Center of Nova Southeastern University, is not only an expert on parenting issues but the working mother of two children. Ready for Makeup? Question: My daughter keeps insisting she is ready for makeup. She continually tells me about how all the other girls get to wear lipstick at school. I just feel 10 is too young to start wearing makeup. It’s becoming an ongoing battle in our house. I remember makeup not being an issue until at least 14. Have times changed, am I just being too strict? Should I just give in? - Liz S. Answer: You are right to feel that "times have changed." Children are exposed to many more adult issues via TV, the Internet and magazines targeted at young teens. Your child is giving you a clear message that she feels comfortable talking with you and feels safe sharing issues that may not meet with your approval. That is a wonderful first step towards this and future dialogues that will undoubtedly come up during your daughter's teen years. Take advantage of this and talk openly and honestly with your daughter. Through your conversations, you will have the opportunity to share your own views about makeup and some stories about your own experiences as an adolescent. Remember to make it safe for your daughter to be truthful. Respect her viewpoint and work towards making a compromise. Perhaps she can wear tinted lipgloss or a light color lipstick. Ultimately, this won't be about lipstick...it will be about trust, open communication, and your relationship. Other recently asked questions • My two-year old is beginning to turn everything into a negotiation, especially bedtime. What can I do? • I will be giving birth to my second child in a few months and my co-workers keep making comments that make me uncomfortable. What should I do? • Submit your questions