Ask the Expert Dr. Roni Leiderman, Associate Dean at The Family and School Center of Nova Southeastern University, is not only an expert on parenting issues but the working mother of two children. Shy Behavior Question: My 7 year old hates school. She will try it on and make excuses to try and get out of going. Every morning is a nightmare. - Donna Answer: It is not unusual for children to occasionally feel uncomfortable about going to school. The stressors associated with school might include issues related to peers or academic performance. If this occurs infrequently, and you feel that your daughter is successful and enjoys school let her know that you understand her anxiety. By reflecting her feelings, she will feel supported and will feel comfortable communicating openly with her. If your daughter consistently appears anxious about school and this had become a pattern of behavior, I suggest to seek professional advice. You can begin by speaking with her school teacher and guidance counselor. You can also receive support from a child psychologist who can work with your daughter and your family. Good luck! Dr. Roni Leiderman Other recently asked questions • My daughter has suddenly become shy • My two-year old is beginning to turn everything into a negotiation, especially bedtime. What can I do? • More questions • Submit your questions